Waking up today and kinda feel pretty 'geram' at how a lot of people leave ppl hanging during texting, or other kinds of messaging. We have to understand that the other party is always expecting a reply and will always give his/her time to wait for that reply because that's courtesy. But a lot of people would just either ignore or look at their phones and go 'errrr, I don't feel like replying'. Well at least just let the other person who is waiting so patiently know. It's manners and a code. If you continue to be like that, people would definitely treat u the same. :)
I've talked to a friend recently and she told me bout how her friend that she cared so much left her hanging. And I thought only girls leave ppl hanging, but guys too. Hm... worrisome. Then I told her not to expect too much. Cause if we expect too much from people, they will definitely hurt us if they don't do the things we want. So yea, don't expect.
Every hanging situation needs a closure. For those who are also in this shoe as well, maybe not the texting ones but in diff life situations, we gotta give it a closure that both parties agree to. That way, people's mind would be at peace and not care bout the unnecessary anymore. Cause things can be pretty tiring and hurtful.
So brush up on this attitude cause it will definitely be good if someone has it.
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